Friend or Stumbling Block?
I was reading Oswald Chambers this morning and in short it was saying sometimes people needed to go through really tough times in order to find Jesus. That my role as a friend is not to step in and get in the way and alleviate a struggle that someone needs to do on their own. This really messes with my tendency to be sympathetic and play savior. It really goes against what I have been taught to do. I think it is a fine line between helping a brother/sister in need, versus robbing God of developing someone’s character. I say all this because I have a friend that is struggling with their identity and I want to jump in and solve it. I think at this point it is their journey to walk out alone. I will stand with them, yet not in their way.


